When you're in a relationship, it's interesting because you have to organize two separate identities. Here are some ways to manage and organize. Some people use Quicken and it can be quite useful. However, I use OneNote, Excel & Google Calendar
1.) Create a "Primary Info" spreadsheet in OneNote or Excel containing Primary Info such as columns with
- name of cardholder
- website link
- user name
- password (separate from google or apple password manager)
- account info
(account number for quick reference & Last four Digits / Pin or Sec. Code)
- Due Dates
- Balance
- Credit Limit
- Totals
Primary Info Example
Start small with just a few accounts but over the years it grows and as you build this sheet over time, you can group them into Internet Accounts, Bank Accounts, Credit Card Accounts, Utility Accounts, ect...
2.) Now that you have a spreadsheet for Primary Info built, using OneNote, Excel, or your preference, create a second spreadsheet. On this spread sheet will be a monthly Payment plan. You can name it "Monthly Bills". I've divided into 4 primary columns, brackets or widgets.
- Bank Accounts
- Bills / Utilities
- Individual 1 Credit Cards
- Individual 2 Credit Cards
Grouped Accounts Example
3.) Google Calendar (or outlook, apple, ect...) add a card name, due date & amount. This will be a useful tool for reminders and notifications. I use different colors for different purposes, bills and utilities are usually red or orange for most important, credit cards are yellow, tasks green, events blue, ect... It's useful to visualize with the month view after you've added all your bills to the calendar.
4.) let's say you get paid every two weeks. What I do is sit for a few minutes at the pc every payday, two weeks or once a month and copy the sheet and paste a new sheet renaming it the new date I'm working on it which creates a log of dates for reference/history. Using my phone I go through each app for each bank or credit card and check if the balances correspond correctly to the spreadsheet, balances, due dates, ect... and, update them if necessary. If I had an upcoming due date, I highlight that card in the spreadsheet until it has been paid.
This has helped me keep track of things the last few years as I have probably over 20+ credit cards with different due dates, user names, passwords. There are many apps for this as well, you have to explore and find the right fit. It certainly helps to spread them into chunks. For example. set half due dates at the first half of the month and half due at the second half of the month, if you're paid by-weekly, can help alleviate the pressure of some bills.
Lastly, I save all of these in the bookmarks bar
Bookmarks Example
By putting together a few different options it can help keep track of things. You cannot always rely on a sheet of paper that can burn or get wet to contain all of your confidential information like accounts, usernames, passwords and as much as password managers are great, you need to have this somewhere so if you're phone gets hacked, erased, destroyed, ect, or that paper get's burnt or wet, or you get locked out of your phone and it was all saved in a note, it's good to have it on a local device that can be saved to cloud.
By having two or three different ways of references such as calendars, bookmarks and spreadsheets, it can help cultivate the mindset that is required to be organized and keep track of all of the different monthly bills.
Note* All accounts, numbers, names, ect are Examples and completely made up for that purpose.
Hope this helps,