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May 20, 2015 at 7:04 comment added jwg @Anders what is the definition of fair? My wife and I consider it fair that we both have exactly the same amount of 'pocket money', after we have pooled all our money, and paid all the expenses from the joint account.
May 19, 2015 at 21:57 comment added Dan C +1, if you are moving in together you obviously see the potential for a long term relationship. There will be times in your lives that one of you is making more money than the other, and that balance may change quite a few times. As long as one of you isn't totally mooching off the other, a 50/50 split, while not technically the most fair distribution, is the best.
May 19, 2015 at 19:54 comment added Pseudonym I actually really like this answer, I currently "rent" a room to my girlfriend in my apartment and we keep it like that to help keep everything in a framework of mutual understanding, and if the split ends up being $400 my way and 384.34 her way (she "gets" less of the apartment and makes less than me) then I will usually just round to $375 for the month because it helps her out and brownie points, and in the end it is only ~$9 which isn't that significant compared to a 4 year relationship
May 19, 2015 at 19:01 comment added Anders It is important for both that the solution is fair.
May 19, 2015 at 17:59 history answered David Rice CC BY-SA 3.0