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My parents are divorced and my dad has to pay to my mom a financial support for every personeveryone in the family, since. Because I moved out, my dad removed a part part of this financial support that was paying tohe gives my mom, now she. She is now asking me to givethat I give her the missing part of money that my dad doesn't give her anymore.

I "escaped" this month by saying that this is my first pay and I still have to figure out the expenses for my living, but I would expect. I expect her to ask me moneyfor the nextmoney next month.

Don't Don't get me wrong she. She supported me in every situation and I want to help her, having. I have a relatively high salary and I could give her the money she is asking for without any struggle for my "survival".

  But I don't want to start giving hergive her money forever, I. I want to help her until she can find a way to get the money herself.

So my final question is: How do I help her but without being treated as a "money cow", and without being a forever monthly payment while putting pressure onATM machine for her to find a way to cover those expenses by herself?

My parents are divorced and my dad has to pay to my mom a financial support for every person in the family, since I moved out my dad removed a part of financial support that was paying to my mom, now she is asking me to give her the missing part of money that my dad doesn't give her anymore.

I "escaped" this month by saying that this is my first pay and I still have to figure out the expenses for my living, but I would expect her to ask me money the next month.

Don't get me wrong she supported me in every situation and I want to help her, having a relatively high salary I could give her the money she is asking for without any struggle for my "survival".

  But I don't want to start giving her money forever, I want to help her until she can find a way to get the money herself.

So my final question is: How do I help her but without being treated as a "money cow", without being a forever monthly payment while putting pressure on her to find a way to cover those expenses by herself?

My parents are divorced and my dad has to pay to my mom financial support for everyone in the family. Because I moved out, my dad removed part of this financial support that he gives my mom. She is now asking that I give her the money that my dad doesn't give her anymore.

I "escaped" this month by saying that this is my first pay and I still have to figure out the expenses for my living. I expect her to ask me for the money next month. Don't get me wrong. She supported me in every situation and I want to help her. I have a relatively high salary and I could give her the money without any struggle for my "survival". But I don't want to give her money forever. I want to help her until she can find a way to get the money herself.

How do I help her without being treated as a "money cow" and without being a forever monthly ATM machine for her?

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