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This is no friend. The clue is that your user name and password aren't required. I've made payments for my mother in law, and the card number, just the 16 digits on front, were enough to send a payment. No one writes their username and password on a check when they make a payment. Think about that.


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im not sure exactly what the title name is Well, you need to be, because that and only that determines ownership (in the US, at least). See Wikipedia: Vehicle title


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Generally, there's no particular "win" to paying off the larger debt first, all things being equal. Pay largest interest rate first. (Now, some advisors say there's a certain logic to paying off the smallest debt first when you only have a trickle of money to do it, irrelevant here -- the concept is to create an "emotional feeling of success" as soon as ...


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Use a Lawyer To ensure the legality and anonymity of such a transaction you should be able to use a lawyer as an intermediary without revealing your identity to the friend. Contact a lawyer and ask them if they can act as an intermediary to allow you to gift funds to your friend without informing the friend of the identity of the donor. A lawyer should be ...


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The Federal Reserve website notes that creditors must accept cash for debts on services already rendered, but that businesses may refuse cash for services not yet rendered unless prohibited by local law. The Treasury website includes examples of businesses limiting what cash they will accept: For example, a bus line may prohibit payment of fares in ...


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If the seller only accepts a payment method that doesn't allow you to get your money back, then there is a reason for that. There is a much higher likelihood that something happens where you'd want a refund, and you won't get one. So I would stay well away from this.


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Your friend has unwittingly got a virus/malware on his computer which has read his contacts list and sent some or all of his contacts (including you) a message, pretending to be from him, asking you for these details. Don't break off the friendship, because he didn't do this deliberately; but don't send the information, because it won't go to him, it will go ...


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The Zelle FAQ article "I’m unsure about using Zelle® to pay someone I don’t know. What should I do?" can be sumarized in three words: "Use something else". Zelle is a great way to send money to friends, family or others you trust such as your personal trainer, babysitter, or a neighbor. If you don’t know the person, or aren’t sure you ...


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Trying to frame my advice in a way that technically answers the question: Don't buy it right away. Pay $100/month to a savings account, and after ten months, buy the item with your accumulated $1000. This doesn't work if you need the item now, but with some advance planning you can usually identify ahead of time what items you will need in the future.


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I see three possible reasons: He doesn't have a secure way (or any way) to manually enter card details. Most payment terminals have a keypad and can support manual entry (or PINs), but everything else in the ecosystem has to as well. If he doesn't have a way (or doesn't know how) to get the terminal to prompt for manual entry, then that's not an option. ...


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To put this into perspective, you are paying ~$1500 interest annually (gradually decreasing), or $132 monthly. All the while, you have money sitting in your bank account doing seemingly nothing. Looks to me you're off to a good start being debt-free at this point, while still keeping a healthy chunk of cash in your bank account.


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Don't be afraid, but definitely leave the money in your account!!! It's spent money; the other bank just doesn't realize it yet. I'd probably call the CC bank and ask them what account they think the money came from. That may be the problem: they took it from the wrong account. EDIT: if your bank has Overdraft Protection via linked savings accounts, an idea ...


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Have you considered contacting the debtor directly and offering them a cash settlement? If they have any money set aside, they may be minded to accept a discount in return for giving you a lump sum. Instead of accepting pennies in the dollar from a "settlement services" company, you could end up gaining a much bigger chunk. Dear Debtor, As you ...


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Frame Challenge (idk if that's a thing in this SE, but I think it should be in this case) You're concerned your friend won't accept the money if he knows it is from you, how do you know he'll accept it from anyone else? You're at least his friend after all. I think the only real answer is convince your friend to accept the money from you, or don't gift it. ...


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Should I pay off my credit cards to avoid monthly payments even if it reduces half of my savings? Unless you can still live for quite a while with that half of your savings and no income, then no. Do not use the cards any more, make the minimum payments, live on a shoestring budget, and save cash like mad. Once you get back on your feet, use the cash you'...


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The receipt is irrelevant. It only means that you acknowledge that you were given a check, not that the check was any good. Since you have not yet started the work, I recommend that, if you have something more productive to work on, you simply return the check and drop the client. It is clear that this client will be a struggle to work with, even if he ...


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That's what "friend" means. The very definition of a friend is someone who knows you well, you know well, can be presumed to help you move**, and would never rip you off. If you are not properly using the word "friend", stop! Language is the shared medium by which we communicate. It only works if we share meanings. If you say "friend", we have to take ...


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I am a new international student in the US Aren't you here on an F-2 visa? that it's price is $1000, and I want to do the payment like $100 per month for 10 months (with no extra interest), how can I do it? You can't, because there's a cost to borrow money. (EDIT: 0% special offers are -- in my experience -- only offered to people with existing good ...


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Using the physical card or not are two different scenarios, namely "Card Present" and "Card Not Present" (also known as MOTO as in Mail Order / Telephone Order). They may involve different contracts, different rates, different risks, and different equipment. Some contracts will simply not allow Card Not Present transactions. You need to actually use the ...


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The best approach by the numbers is to pay minimums on everything and put all extra towards the debt with the highest interest rate. So, that would be the unsubsidized loans in any order, then the auto loan, then the subdsidized from high interest rate to low. However, with student loans the interest is deductible. Since the top of your income will likely ...


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Dave Ramsey, the famous personal-finance guru and radio personality, has a concept he developed after counseling thousands of families in crisis situations called the four-walls. The idea is to prioritize your money to take care of your immediate, physical needs. This would include your savings. First, you pay for food Next, you pay utilities Next, you ...


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The statement suggests that you worked 114.13 hours this pay period, not the amount you suggest (68.23+37.9+8). So that could be the discrepancy in yours and your employer's calculation. It looks as if your overtime computation is slightly more than double time. That is pretty generous. Additionally there are other contributors that add to income as ...


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Reasons to not close your debt: You can make more than 6.8% return somewhere else You fear an unexpected expense in which you need temporary cash Reasons to close your debt: Even if you believe you can make more than 6.8%, nothing is guaranteed and you end up losing money on interest. Debt is leverage. That extra $20k is not yours. If you lose it, the ...


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The reverse happened to one of my kids. A payment for a credit card bill that wasn't theirs was made from their bank account. They notified their bank, and worried that the account had been hacked. During the investigation a second payment was made. Only then did the bank realized that another customer had fat-fingered their 16 digit bank account number, ...


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Couple of my friends went through a fraud agent who ran off with their money and the landlords were none the wiser. So it always pays to be a bit diligent. Are they a well known letting agents nationally ? Many agents do have different accounts to manage their properties. Yours seems a case as such probably i.e. they manage the property on behalf of the ...


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The typical home mortgage is amortized to give you a consistent payment amount through the duration of the loan. What you'll see is that each month a greater portion of your payment goes to principal rather than interest. When looking at loan calculators look for ones that show the full amortization schedule to get a good picture of how the variables ...


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As you've clarified in comments, the cheque is advanced payment for work you haven't done yet. Given that, unless waiting for this work is actively stopping you doing some other work, I would just drop this and do something else. You can always chase the client occasionally to see if they still want the work or not.


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When you use a credit card and pay over time, you will pay plenty of interest. 16% to 20% a year is not unusual. So the wrong way to do things: Buy a $1,000 item with your credit card. Pay $100 every month. (Because interest will add up very very quickly). A better way to do things: Buy a $1,000 item with your credit card. Reduce your spending as much as ...


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The car is most certainly in your mom's name, and as such she is the owner. This is an easy thing to find out, look at the registration that should be in your glove box. Being that she is the owner she can do what she wants with the car, and that may include preventing you from driving it. Another resource to tap, is a police officer. You can ask the ...


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With respect to the existing answers, I don't see why/how this is actually an issue. If you start with the premise that you use the card like a debit card, you are all set. Each week, you are paying whatever shows as a current balance, right? If a bill is cut on the last day of the month, and then due by the 21st, how could you not have paid the statement ...


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