Questions tagged [sugar-daddy]

An arrangement where a "sugar daddy" (or, sometimes, a "sugar mommy") promises a "sugar baby" money for engaging in a "romantic" (i.e., sexual) relationship. Promising such a relationship is often used to scam people in fraud schemes like advanced fee fraud, money laundering, smurfing, and outright theft from the "sugar baby". In nearly all cases a sugar relationship is a scam and has no value to the sugar-baby.

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I am in a sugar daddy scam and he is threatening me because I want out. What do I do?

I have been involved in a sugar daddy relationship for a little while. He would send me money from Moneygram to Walmart from other people he was working with. I would then send most of the money to a ...
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I’m pretty sure this is a scam [duplicate]

I had a ‘sugar daddy’ follow me on Instagram, he asked me to get another app to converse on there (so I did) and now he’s telling me I have to play a $100 fee to convert $5000USD to AUD. I’m 95% sure ...
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Please help me with scam? [duplicate]

I stupidly found a sugar daddy site and found one. He sent me $1900 and now wants it back and is threatening to call the police if I don’t send it back. I do not have the money in my account since it ...
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My online boyfriend ask me to do the bank transfer using his bank account because he can't access it from another country [duplicate]

My online boyfriend asked me to do bank transfer because he is in another country and he can't access it.So I log in to his account and I did the transaction, there was an international pin ,cot pin, ...
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Is this potential sugar daddy trying to scam me? [duplicate]

A potential sugar daddy requested that I send him my email & name, so he can send me a check. He said he wants to use the mobile deposit to send me the money. Once the mobile deposit has been ...
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Sugar momma wants my bank login info — is this a scam? [duplicate]

I met a women online, through a website meant to help fetish-seekers network. After we had talked for only a couple of hours, she told me she wanted me to be her sugar baby and will pay me weekly. ...
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Why does a sugar daddy want my Twitter login?

A sugar daddy says that if I want my monthly allowance of $1,000, then I need to give him my Twitter account login. I know this is a scam. However, what is the point of that? He doesn't want bank ...
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Is a reloadit card a scam?

I've been talking to this "sugar momma" because I always get added randomly. 10/10 times there fake. However, this is the first one that sent me a gift card and now wants me to get a ...
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Sugar daddy requested that I verify my bitcoin on Cash App — is it a scam? [duplicate]

A "sugar daddy" requested that I send him my Cash App tag (username) so that he could put me on his payroll. He told me that I would then need to verify my bitcoin and pay a small fee of $70 ...
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I deposited a cheque from my sugar daddy and then sent someone money. What do I do now? [duplicate]

I deposited a cheque from my sugar daddy and then he asked me to send someone money. I only sent a little bit, but then I canceled the transactions before they were completed and my sugar daddy hasn't ...
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Is my sugar daddy a scam [duplicate]

I recently started talking to this guy few weeks ago and then he asked if I’m interested in being his sugar baby and then he wants my account number and routing so he can send me direct deposit then I ...
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Is this a Sugar daddy Bitcoin scam or not? [duplicate]

I’ve been talking to this acclaimed “sugar daddy” and I’m trying to figure out if it’s a scam. He hasn’t asked for any bank info or any other private information. He told me that my fee for receiving ...
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My sugar daddy wants personal information to make me a member of "staff" in his company

I met a guy who wanted to be my sugar daddy and we started talking. He’s sweet and we have actual conversations but he wants to make me a member of “staff” in his company and wants my information. I ...
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I think I got scammed by sugar daddy

I went into the sugar daddy Instagram accounts because I was in need of money. Then, I realized he was a scammer because he asked me to pay for some “fee” money. A lot of it. He kept sending me ...
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Online Sugar Daddy and Bitcoin [duplicate]

I met a guy through Snapchat and he says he’s a sugar daddy. He claims he’ll pay me an allowance weekly through Cash App. But before he starts giving me an allowance he wants me to download and create ...
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What do I do if a sugar daddy who sent me money is asking for money back or threatening me with FBI asking he needs a $1000 to pay off his workers? [duplicate]

I’m confused on what to do. Recently, I was talking to a guy who came to me first on Snapchat wanting me to be his sugar baby and I agreed. Long story short, he told me he would be giving me an ...
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On creating a new bank account for "sugar payments" [duplicate]

Recently, I became a sugar baby and found a daddy who wants me to create a new bank account for him to send money to. He doesn’t want to use a cash app because he has been scammed in the past. Is ...
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Grindr Sugar Dad Scam? [duplicate]

A few months ago I was on Grindr and a profile claiming to be a sugar daddy messaged me and I think now it's a scam, I should've known before but I was kind of desperate and in need of money at that ...
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i think im being scammed by a sugar daddy [duplicate]

so i'm female 18 and i was looking on a website for a sugar daddy, i started talking to one and we moved to texting, he then asked for my banking info which i turned down and asked if he used paypal. ...
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Sugar mama threatening to send someone to kill and blackmail me. Is it a scam? [duplicate]

I will admit I am ashamed at what I did, and a little anxious, but I’ll also share this in hopes that someone will either learn from this, or that someone will know what to do (or even give advice). I ...
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SD wants me to purchase Prepaid card for international fees through paypal. Is this a scam? [duplicate]

A SD contacted me in regards to me becoming his SB. He wants to send a monthly allowance through Paypal but he is in Germany so Paypal is requiring a 100$ international transfer fee. He is not asking ...
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My sugar daddy wants me to pay a $50 conversion fee on paypal

This is the first time i’ve properly been involved with a sugar daddy and he wants me to pay $50 for the USD to AUD conversion rate on pay pal. is this a scam and should i just block him? i don’t want ...
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Is he scamming me? [duplicate]

My sugar asked me to create a new bank2go ive never used it before has no money no anything and he is asking for my account and routing number and online access should I give it to him ?
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Sugar Daddy is Threatening to Report Me To FBI [duplicate]

I recently got involved with someone Over the internet and I asked him if he wanted me to be his sugar baby. Long story short he agreed and sent me money to be his sugar baby. I told him I was going ...
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Am I in a sugar momma scam? What’s should I do in my situation? [duplicate]

I was approached through direct message by a female account on Instagram (which seemed to be catfished) saying that she is a “sugar mummy” willing to pay $300 weekly for a sugar baby. “She” basically ...
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sugar daddy sent me check for $3000, i’m waiting for it to clear but he’s asking me to send $500 to a friend [duplicate]

so i’ve been messaging a sugar daddy back and forth. we agreed on a certain amount of money a week but he ended up saying he was going to send me 3x the amount of what we agreed on. he told me i was ...
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Is it safe to give a sugar daddy my bank account and routing number? [duplicate]

So I have a potential sugar daddy and he is asking me for my bank account number and routing number so he can deposit money into my account every week is that safe or is this a scam. Emergency pls ...
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Sugar daddy wants money returned to bitcoin for his son [duplicate]

I have been talking to a gentleman who says he’s a sugar daddy and would love to spoil me for a personal online connection because he is lonely. He has my banking information and is sending me a check ...
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My sugar daddy is threatening to get me in trouble because he has my ssn and all my personal information is this even possible if so what do I do [duplicate]

We exchanged phone numbers and all personal information and If I don’t give him what he wants he said he could get me in major trouble what do I do I can’t keep doing this? How do I know if this is ...
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Sugar daddy wants money back and makes threats — what should I do?

This sugar daddy has been texting me and telling me to be his baby. Jokingly, I told him yes and he sent me a lot of money. Now, he wants it back. I tried sending it back in multiple ways but it won't ...
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Sugar daddy prepaid card scam

For a couple of weeks, I have been talking to a sugar daddy. He sent me a “prepaid” card, which is now activated, and he requested that I withdraw a large amount and deposit into his Bitcoin wallet. ...
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A stranger told me he would give me a weekly allowance. Is that a scam?

A stranger told me he would give me a weekly allowance if I gave him my bank name, account number and routing number. Is that a scam?
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Paid a scammer money via PayPal. What can I do?

I’ve never had a sugar daddy before but my friend recently created an account on SeekingArrangement and met a very trustworthy guy on there and told me to try it out. And I did. We talked for a few ...
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I don't know what's going on am I being scammed?

I had a gentleman reach out to me through my Instagram, he said he was going to start sending me money saying he was looking for a sugar baby. I said okay and we started talking, he had asked me to ...
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Am I being blackmailed by sugar daddy or is this legit?

I found out about how well sugar babies were getting treated so I thought I’d try it on for size. Something went wrong and my sugar daddy threatened me saying his friend was an FBI agent, he had my ...
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How do "cash giveaway" scams on Twitter work? [duplicate]

I noticed that some people are giving away cash to "first 500 to re-tweet this" or something like that. Sometimes it looks legitimate, e.g., the account is verified, old, and has real ...
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Will I get in trouble for sending money to an account specified by my sugar daddy? [duplicate]

I met a guy on an app and we talked for about a couple of weeks. Then, he asked if he could help me with my bills and I said yes. However, he wanted information on my bank account, so I gave him my ...
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Bitcoin sugar daddy — is it a scam? [duplicate]

A guy on Instagram wants to be my sugar daddy and send me money through bitcoin. We've only been talking for about a week and he hasn't asked for any of my info. He just asked to sign up for a ...
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Sugar daddy wants to transfer me money for me to buy him gift cards [duplicate]

I’ve been talking to a sugar daddy for a couple days and he wants to mobile transfer me 200$. He wants me to buy 150$ worth of google play gift cards for him and then keep 50$ for myself. Is this a ...
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How can I protect myself from a scammer who has my information?

I was scammed by someone who had stolen another sugar daddy’s identity and pretended to be him and offered to spoil me. Long story short, they were able to have my name, school ID, phone number, ...
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Sugar daddy giving his bank account info [duplicate]

Theres an app to find snapchat friends. And there is a guy wanting to be my sugar daddy. We havnt met let alone even talked. And he asks if he can trust me. And i say yes. So he gives me his bank ...
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Sugar momma asking for bank details [duplicate]

So this lady hit me up on Instagram and asked if I’d maybe be interested in being her sugar baby. We talked a bit but she wants my bank login and password. I asked for picture proof and she sent a ...
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Sugar daddy scammer threatening with police

I got involved with an online person and we exchanged numbers and he told me he would pay me $500 a week allowance to hang out when our schedules permit and to message him. Looking over it, I should ...
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Sugar Daddy wants bank info [duplicate]

I have a sugar daddy who wants me username & password to my bank to send me my money. So what I did was I opened a new account with only $25 in it at a totally separate bank from my main one. ...
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Am I being Scammed by a Sugar Momma? [duplicate]

Lemme start this off by saying I haven't done anything yet or handed over any info yet, I'm just trying to see in advance whether it's time to block this lady and move on or keep riding the trail. ...
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Is my sugar mamma scamming me [duplicate]

So I like an idiot wanted to make money and fast so I picked a sugar mamma who I then gave access to my online banking. **After! Agreeing to an amount of 300$ ** she then told me she was going to need ...
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Sugar daddy bitcoin scam? [duplicate]

I met a sugar daddy online who claims he cannot use cashapp or paypal to compensate me and can only use bitcoins. I made a coinbase account and now he is asking for my coinbase login so he can "load ...
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Sugar daddy needs pictures of my credit card — scam or not?

I met this guy. I've been talking to him for two weeks. I'm too shy to meet him. He wants to pay my credit card. To pay it he needs a full picture of both sides on my credit card. Do I give it to him ...
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Sugar daddy asked me to send $29 to his account manager's PayPal [duplicate]

This is the first time I've used a sugar daddy site and I have little idea what I'm doing. I was smart enough to set up a PayPal account so he wouldn't have any of my personal information. He set an ...
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Will I get in trouble for sharing my bank account information with a sugar daddy? [duplicate]

A sugar daddy messaged me on Instagram. I was having a hard time so I responded, and he said he would send me money and didn’t expect anything in return. He then he asked for my bank account info ...
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