I have a 3 option scenario and I really can't decide what's the best move here. Here's a little background on my husband and I's current situation.

We are focusing on rapidly paying off our debt. We have approx. $116k in debt (not including our home), which includes a car (9.5k), a personal loan for back taxes (19k), and two student loans (16k and 70k). We definitely have to refi the house because my husband's ex-wife's name is still on it (she signed a quit claim deed when they divorced years ago). The interest rate is also a bit high because they were so young when they bought it (5%).

So here are the options:

  1. Basic refinance at 4.25% with current mortgage company. Lower monthly payment by about $140/mth. Gives us more money to pay off other debt with (debt snowball method). Closing costs are only about $1200.
  2. Refi at same interest rate, however do a cash-out refi of $26k and pay off the 16k student loan + the 9.5k car. Free up an extra $525 month towards other debts. However, lose out on about $6k of equity due to closing costs/misc fees. When we sell our house, this would mean our current $65k of equity would then be about $35k. BUT we could pay off bigger chunks of debt faster.
  3. Same scenario as above, except instead of paying off the debt, use the cash as a down payment for property that we want to build on one day. This puts our equity into another asset that will continue to grow in value until we are able to sell our home and build on it. We plan on selling in about 1.5-2 years.

All 3 scenarios get us within a few thousand dollars net worth difference, so that piece isn't huge. My biggest question - is losing out on the $6k of equity to the closing costs/fee worth the jump in paying off our debt or the gain of property? Or - would we better off refinancing only, taking less of a loss on the closing costs, and continuing to pay off our debt at normal speeds?

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    What is the rate of interest and current EMI on Car loan and Personal loan and student loan. Can you also edit and add country tag. Point 2, $26K refi ... is this more like $26K plus $6K closing cost?
    – Dheer
    Feb 23, 2018 at 6:35
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    On your point 2, refi at the same interest rate plus take $26k out wouldn't normally leave you with a lower monthly payment. Or are you extending the lifetime of the loan?
    – B. Johnson
    Feb 23, 2018 at 8:17
  • Based on what you've told us, Option #1 is the best choice, since @B.Johnson is right about Option #2 not reducing the size of the loan.
    – RonJohn
    Feb 23, 2018 at 11:26
  • You don't necessarily need to refinance to get the ex's name off the mortgage. There are also no/low fee options, a streamlined mortgage with current lender could be ideal.
    – Hart CO
    Feb 23, 2018 at 14:59
  • @Dheer the car is actually interest free as my husband's dad paid it off a while back and we have been paying it back monthly, principal only. Sorry new here, but I believe I added the correct tag you were asking about. The total mortgage would increase by ~$32k with us getting $26k out in cash and the other $6 would be the closing costs/fees they tack on.
    – Marie
    Feb 24, 2018 at 22:49

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First off, it sounds like you're in a lot of debt already, so I would definitely not go with option (3) as that would just put you even deeper in debt, which you state is not your goal.

For (2) it sounds like you're paying $6k - $1,200 (plus a slightly higher interest rate on your existing home debt) for the privilege of having your debt be in the form of a mortgage rather than a car/student loan (which is arguably preferable, all other things being equal). The $525 "extra" a month is presumably that much (or more) less you'll be paying into the principle on your mortgage. All in all, hard to justify such high additional closing costs, especially for such a short period of time.

In addition, given your ~2 year timeframe, only having $35k equity you would may put you in a tight spot putting together a decent downpayment on your next property. Instead, I would opt for the basic refinance now knowing that any "extra" equity you have when you sell would still be available to be applied as a lump sum to your other loans (which you've still been paying off as fast as possible in the meantime).

  • Thank you @B.Johnson. I think you are correct in this. Although the idea of getting rid of the student loan and car debt in one fell swoop is appealing, financially we wouldn't be saving enough in the interest of the debts we paid off to justify losing out on the $6k of equity from the closing costs, as well as not having the remaining equity when we sell for our next home. Thank you!
    – Marie
    Feb 24, 2018 at 22:59
  • I agree! Option #2 is basically just a "shell game" with your debt anyway--you're only moving it from one pile to another, which will not really help you that much with your goal of "rapidly paying off debt". The faster you pay off the debt, the less it will matter that you could save a few percentage points of interest just by moving some of it on the refi. Feb 26, 2018 at 2:59

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