Suppose there is a couple, Clayton and Emma. Clayton is 26 and has a good job making over $75k a year, Emma is 20 and still in college (she doesn't have any student loans but she has no job and no credit). Suppose this couple is not yet ready for marriage but they want to buy a house together.

Chances are only Clayton will get approved for a mortgage because he has income and credit. In this case can the title of the home still be held by both?

Would the lender (bank) have any reservations about this since a party not on the mortgage has ownership of the property?

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    If you aren't ready for marriage, good advice is to not buy a home together. It complicates the financial impact of possible separation, which can increase the strain on the relationship. Instead consider having the more financially ready person buy the house, and the other person pay rent. Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 14:06
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    @jamesturner And if my wife reads that, let me make it perfectly clear for everyone that I disagree with your interpretation of my comment! Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 17:42
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    @jamesturner almost as bad? A shared mortgage binds you together much stronger than marriage; in marriage, there's always the option of divorce (that quite many couples take), but you're simply not getting out of a shared mortgage, it'll tie you for decades.
    – Peteris
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 17:56
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    Why would Clayton give half a house to Emma for free? That's quite a present, and he had to take out a mortgage to afford it. Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 19:38
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    @jwg: well they often sign prenups if the difference in wealth is huge. But he says they aren't ready for marriage yet, I'd say taking out a loan to buy her half a house is more serious than marriage. Commented Nov 1, 2017 at 12:39

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It is highly unlikely that this would be approved by a mortgage underwriter.

When the bank gives a loan with a security interest in a property (a lien), they are protected - if the borrower does not repay the loan, the property can be foreclosed on and sold, and the lender is made whole for the amount of the loan that was not repaid.

When two parties are listed on the deed, then each owns an UNDIVIDED 50% share in the property. If only one party has pledged the property as surety against the loan, then in effect only 50% of the property is forecloseable. This means that the bank is unable to recoup its loss.

For a (fictional, highly simplified) concrete example, suppose that the house is worth $100,000 and Adam and Zoe are listed on the deed, but Adam is the borrower for a $100,000 mortgage. Adam owes $100,000 and has an asset worth $50,000 (which he has pledged as security for the loan), while Zoe owes nothing and has an asset worth $50,000 (which is entirely unencumbered). If Adam does not pay the mortgage, the bank would only be able to foreclose on his $50,000 half of the property, leaving them exposed to great risk.

There are other legal and financial reasons, but overall I think you'll find it very difficult to locate a lender who is willing to take that kind of risk. It's very complicated and there is absolutely no up-side.

Also - speaking from experience (from which I was protected because of the bank's underwriting rules) and echoing the advice offered by others on this site: don't bother trying. Commingling assets without a contract (either implicit by marriage or explicit by, well a contract) is going to get you in trouble.

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    "When two parties are listed on the deed, then each owns an UNDIVIDED 50% share in the property." It's important to point out that there's an exception to this rule in most states, but it's only available to married couples. Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 18:23
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    This is a much better answer IMO, considering that it actually answers the questions posed and doesn't make assumptions about the OP. +1
    – glassy
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 18:47
  • I would argue that even a 50% foreclosure is impossible, because normally no one would buy a 50% share of a house. Also If Zoe got to own a $50,000 part of a house, this would have to be some sort or income or gift and you would possibly create tax problems with lent money.
    – Daniel
    Commented Nov 1, 2017 at 12:39
  • @Daniel: I personally know someone who bought (something like) 92% of a property. This is actually very common - inheritance creates these partial-ownership situations all the time, and it does get complicated when one owner does not wish to sell but cannot buy out the other owners. To your second point - there would likely be no "income" involved. It's likely to be treated as a gift, for which the first $14,000 is tax-free and the rest is simply counted against the $5,490,000 lifetime exclusion. (Tax Year 2017 figures)
    – Istanari
    Commented Nov 1, 2017 at 13:41
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    @mkennedy That's different - the mortgage is still in both your names, you just qualified on the merit of a single person in the partnership. OP is asking about having a single person listed on the mortgage but both on the title - this isn't possible. The only solution is for them to also share the mortgage (as you did).
    – J...
    Commented Nov 2, 2017 at 12:20

I will expand on Bacon's comment.

When you are married, and you acquire any kind of property, you automatically get a legal agreement. In most states that property is owned jointly and while there are exceptions that is the case most of the time.

When you are unmarried, there is no such assumption of joint acquisition. While words might be said differently between the two parties, if there is nothing written down and signed then courts will almost always assume that only one party owns the property.

Now unmarried people go into business all the time, but they do so by creating legally binding agreements that cover contingencies. If you two do proceed with this plan, it is necessary to create those documents with the help of a lawyer. Although expensive paying for this protection is a small price in relation to what will probably be one of the largest purchases in your lives.

However, I do not recommend this. If Clayton can and wants to buy a home he should. Emma can rent from Clayton. That rent could any amount the two agree on, including zero. If the two do get married, well then Emma will end up owning any equity after that date. If they stay together until death, it is likely that she (or her heirs) will own half of it anyway. Also if this house is sold, the equity pass into larger house they buy after marriage, then that will be owned jointly.

If they do break up, the break up is clean and neat. Presumably she would have paid rent anyway, so nothing is lost. Many people run into trouble having to sell at a bad time in a relationship that coincides with a weak housing market. In that case, both parties lose.

So much like Bacon's advice I would not buy jointly. There is no upside, and you avoid a lot of downside.

Don't play "house" by buying a home jointly when you are unmarried.

  • Thanks for the answer, but suppose Clayton loves Emma so much that he wants her name to be on the house as well even though he is not able to legally marry her at the moment (for another complicated reason), would that still be possible? That is the crux of my question? Can one person be on the mortgage but both own the property?
    – AbuMariam
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 14:29
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    As I said, it doesn't matter. If they do get married then nothing is lost. If they don't the break up is clean. Love has nothing to do with it. However, you can always draw up legal documents that say she owns half the property, but in most jurisdictions she cannot be on the deed.
    – Pete B.
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 14:30
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    This is mostly decided by the mortgage company, but could also be a law. Think about it: If you were lending money for someone to buy a house, would you let someone else own part of it that was not responsible for the loan? Of course not.
    – Pete B.
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 15:00
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    @PeteB. Why not? The lien will not depend on who gets title to the property at closing. The lender will only care that they have a clear lien. Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 15:05
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    @AbuMariam you should know that love makes people irrational. This is most definitely one of those cases.
    – RonJohn
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 16:50

In this case can the title of the home still be held by both?

Yes, it is possible to have additional people on title that are not on the mortgage.

Would the lender (bank) have any reservations about this since a party not on the mortgage has ownership of the property?

Possibly, but there is a very simple way to avoid this. Clayton could simply purchase the home himself, and add Emma to the title after closing by recording a quitclaim deed. The lender can't stop that, and from their point of view it's actually better, since they have two people to go after in the case of default. (But despite it being better they often make it difficult to purchase

Tip, when you have an attorney draft the quitclaim document, have them draft the reverse document too. (Emma relinquishing the property back to Clayton.) There is usually no extra charge for this and then you have it if you need it. For example, you may need to file the reverse forms if you want to refinance.

As a side note, I agree with Grade 'Eh' Bacon's and Pete B.'s in recommending that Clayton and Emma do not do this. Once they are married the property will either be automatically jointly owned, or a spouse can be added to the title easily, and until they are married there are no pros but many cons to doing this. Reasons not to do it:

  1. It can make refinancing more complicated.
  2. It's possible that if the market takes a dive and takes the home value down with it, this could create a liability for Emma that she otherwise would not have.
  3. If Clayton defaults the bank can try to go after Emma.
  4. If Clayton and Emma ever break up, undoing this takes action.

As a side note, in a comment it was proposed:

...suppose Clayton loves Emma so much that he wants her name to be on the house...

I understand the desire to do this from an emotional point of view, but realize this does not make sense from a financial point of view.

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    What do you mean by "Once they are married it is automatic so isn't necessary"? Also, while a lender can't stop you from filing a quit-claim deed, are you sure it wouldn't trigger the due-on-sale clause standard in most mortgages? Maybe it depends on the state?
    – Hart CO
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 17:21
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    @Hart CO: Once they are married, the house becomes community property, at least in the absence of a prenuptual agreement, as long as they stay married. What happens in the event of a divorce varies by state,
    – jamesqf
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 18:06
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    @jamesqf: not necessarily. It would depend greatly on the laws of the state in which the property is owned, as well as the state in which the couple resides. In most cases, the portion of the property owned before the marriage will remain the separate property of the buyer, while the portion of the property paid for with commingled funds (after the marriage, regardless of where the funds came from) would then be community property. Then there's taxes and appreciation to consider. This can be an incredibly complex issue.
    – Istanari
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 18:09
  • @jamesqf There are only 9 community property states.
    – Hart CO
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 18:17
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    Are you sure this works? Normally a mortgage has terms that the whole loan balance is due immediately under various conditions, including change of ownership. Commented Nov 1, 2017 at 2:44

The mortgage and title of the house would be under both your names equally.

When I applied for a mortgage with my girlfriend, I was the primary applicant because of my credit score and she was the secondary because of her income (she makes more).

When all was said and done, it was explained to us that the mortgage was ours equally and so was the house, and that I didn't hold more ownership than her over either.

We were approved quickly and hassle free. This is our first house too. This is in Florida.


I did that. What is allowed changes over time, though — leading up to the crisis, lenders would approve at the flimsiest evidence.

In particular, my SO had only been in the country a couple years and was at a sweet spot where lack of history was no longer counting against her. Running the numbers, the mortgage was a fraction of a percent cheaper in her name than in mine. Even though she used a “stated income” (self reported, not backed by job history) of the household, not just herself.

The title was in her name, and would have cost money to have mine added later so we didn’t. This was in Texas, which is a “community property” state so after marriage for sure everything is “ours”.

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    Property which was acquired DURING the marriage is community property, while property which was acquired BEFORE the marriage is separate property. It becomes much more complex when community money (income) is applied to separate property assets (taxes, mortgage, upkeep). Separate property does not automatically become community property on marriage. There are other rules - inheritance, for instance, is typically separate property (but the earnings on such are community property).
    – Istanari
    Commented Oct 31, 2017 at 21:21

It's not typically possible for someone to jointly own the house, who is not also jointly liable for the mortgage.

This doesn't matter however, because it is possible for two people to get a mortgage together, where only one person's income is assessed by the lender. If that person could get a mortgage of that amount on their own, then the couple should also be able to get the same mortgage.

Source: My wife and I got a mortgage like this. She is self-employed, rather than meet the very high requirements for proving her self-employment income, we simply said that we only wanted my income to be taken into consideration.


It depends on the bank - In some cases(mine included :) ) the bank allowed for this but Emma had to sign on a document waiving the rights for the house in case the bank needs to liquidate assets in to recover their mortgage in case of delays or non-payment of dues in time. This had to be signed after taking independent legal advice from a legal adviser.

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