I was recommended an EA to help me file my taxes and he recommended me to file jointly with my wife's name as the first name on the joint tax return.
I did some reading and it seems like it's best to make it a one time decision that is best not changed form time to time.
When I wanted to probe further, it only seems like this is more like a recommendation :
Changing the order of the names and SSNs could delay the processing of your return and your refund.
Is there anything more to worry about changing the first name on joint tax return than the issue that changing it frequently could "delay the processing of your return and your refund."?