I've gone sale agreed (note: "sale agreed" means the sale has been agreed in principle - no contracts have been signed, no non-refundable deposits have been made etc.) on a house. The market I'm currently in was extremely competitive, houses were all generally going for significantly more than their asking price, as mine did.

I have nearly everything ready - loan arranged, survey of the house completed, solicitor ready to sign everything.

Now with Covid, a recession is more than likely coming our way.

Furthermore, with lock-downs in place - the seller is extremely unlikely to find an alternative buyer in the near future (it's an executor sale if that makes any difference).

I was thinking of trying to put some pressure onto the seller to lower the agreed price.

While I don't want to lose the house (and the money we have spent so far on legal etc.), I would also like to take advantage of potentially lower mortgage repayments.

Is it a bad idea to put this to the estate agent and be forthright about exactly why I'm asking to lower the price? Is there a "reasonable" amount to lower the purchase price by?


My intention here isn't to "screw" the seller as several commentators assume that I am trying to do.

At the end of the day, I'm a first time buyer who has effectively agreed to buy a house at "peak" economic health. Within a couple of weeks of this agreement, economic impacts of covid-19 were already being felt and the short / medium term prospects are not good.

At the end of this year, if covid hasn't wreaked enough havoc, there is a very real risk that Brexit could have an extremely negative impact on my country.

So while the honorable thing to do might be to commit to the agreed purchase price, this might be an extremely unwise decision from a personal finance point of view.

"Why don't you just pull out of the sale then?"

I could do that, that leaves the seller in a very bad position as well - it will be extremely unlikely they will be able to find another buyer in the short / medium term - so giving them an opportunity to consider my concerns might be better than simply walking away.

Outcome Edit

The bank valued the property about 6% lower than the agreed purchase price (mostly due to Covid). This effectively meant that the maximum amount the bank would lend was 6% less than what we had originally sought. We weren't willing to try and pay a larger deposit to fill the gap and informed the seller + estate agent (providing the banks valuation of the property). The seller agreed almost immediately to the reduction and we closed within a couple of weeks thereafter.

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    If you did this and I was the seller I would give you a firm no. If you reneged on the agreed upon deal I would take your earnest money and refuse to deal with you again regardless of how difficult it might be to find another buyer. Apr 1, 2020 at 14:01
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    Take care with this. In some countries/states, a verbal agreement is a contract. Harder to prove in court, but still a legally binding contract. Apr 1, 2020 at 18:58
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    At the very least you will seriously annoy the seller. A simple way to check if this is OK - imagine that good economic news had been announced and the seller came to you and said "because prices are going to go up I want more money than we agreed". Would you think that was OK? Apr 1, 2020 at 20:03
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    If you don't care about personal qualities like honesty, decency, and trustworthiness, then sure, go ahead and screw the guy, Apr 1, 2020 at 23:54
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    This does not seem to me about personal finaces rather then ethics. "Should I ..." is generally a bad start for any question on stackoverflow. We can´t make a decision for you nor do we have to live with it.
    – Daniel
    Apr 2, 2020 at 11:05

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You could ask, but you risk the seller deciding to just cancel and put the property back on the market once restrictions lift, shutting you out. Depending on the exact neighborhood and local market, there is no guarantee that a recession will even affect the chosen neighborhood. You described it as a very competitive, presumably it will still be a desirable neighborhood even in a recession and you didn't mention how vulnerable the local economy is to a recession.

  • Local economy is Ireland so if Brexit negotiations go south - pretty vulnerable...
    – TomSelleck
    Apr 1, 2020 at 13:16
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    You have to consider not just Ireland as a whole, but the specific area. Recession effects aren't evenly distributed.
    – pboss3010
    Apr 1, 2020 at 13:34
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    @TomSelleck, "Ireland" isn't your local economy. Your local economy is the city within Ireland, or perhaps the section of the city. As an example, the last time a housing bubble burst in the US, the estimated value of my house went up 10%, despite overall housing prices in the city (and country) falling.
    – Mark
    Apr 1, 2020 at 21:16
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    The seller could do that, and then risk that they end up having to sell it for a much lower price. This is hardly even speculation, it is highly highly likely that house prices are going to fall and not just a little.
    – eps
    Apr 1, 2020 at 23:34
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    @eps Or, they just check with other buyers as to whether their offer is still valid: If Tom was offering €XY7,500, he now wants to pay €XY2,500, but the next best offer was €XY5,000, then the Seller may decide to drop their price by €2,500 instead of €5,000. This isn't only a 2-player game Apr 2, 2020 at 12:12

With the caveat that I'm assuming your verbal agreement isn't legally binding (AIG says it isn't), I would pull out of the deal completely if I were in your shoes. By negotiating, you're essentially trying to price an unprecedented global financial/economic meltdown. What is the right haircut to the existing price? 5%? 10%? 50%? Are you looking for a reduction to make you feel better, or attempting to re-price the house accurately. Unless there was a reason why you absolutely had to move, I would walk away from the deal and stay put until things cleared.

A risk you didn't mention is after buying this house and having to start mortgage payments, when will you be able to move in given lockdowns? I have friends sitting on two mortgages who can't sell their existing homes, or work on/move into the new one given lockdowns in our city. They would probably love to rewind the clock and abandon their deposit.

I would ignore everyone here talking about honor and screwing people. The fact is you are not in a legally binding contract, and even those (of every financial magnitude) are being challenged and re-negotiated globally because of the financial ruin associated with honoring binding terms that did not envision circumstances like we're in today (your case is non-binding). Everything is significantly different enough from even 2 weeks ago, or even last week (depending on where you live), that if I were selling a house in this environment, I would be surprised if the buyer went through with it.

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    This is definitely the only advice the OP should listen to. There is nothing dishonourable in abandoning the purchase. Yes, it will be frustrating for the seller, but they will (or should) appreciate that they never had a binding contract. Effectively you are in the negotiations stage until the contract is signed, and either party is free to back away. Buying a property right now, particularly at a price you agreed before the financial crash, would be an act of financial irresponsibility.
    – JBentley
    Apr 3, 2020 at 23:21

If you've already signed a contract, it's too late. Well, barring legal shenanigans.

If you haven't signed a contract, then sure, you can ask. That's how negotiations work. The buyer comes up with reasons why he should pay less, the seller gives reasons why he should pay more.

I wouldn't expect asking for a lower price to derail the sale. The seller could say no, I don't think there will be a recession, or I don't think this area will be affected by it, or it doesn't matter if there is or not because I can't afford to sell for any less than this, or whatever. Then you have to decide whether to pay a higher price or you call off the sale. If you're really rude and obnoxious about it I suppose a seller might decide that they don't want to deal with you and call it off.

  • Thanks for the reply! Nothing signed yet, still going through the motions. I had no intention of going hardball / threatening to walk away from negotiations - I fully intended on saying how I was feeling given the current climate - but what I didn't know is if that it's a valid reason to ask for a negotiation on the price
    – TomSelleck
    Apr 1, 2020 at 19:04
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    There's really no such thing as an invalid reason to ask for a lower price. "I'm concerned about the long term value." "I can't afford that price." "I think aliens will invade." It doesn't matter. (Well, maybe some anti-discrimination laws would apply to you if you said you are afraid that black people are moving into this neighborhood or some such.) Even if the seller thinks the reason is not applicable or plain stupid, too bad.
    – Jay
    Apr 1, 2020 at 19:27
  • Are you trying to say that by signing an offer on a house the seller can sue someone and compel them to complete the deal at that price?!? Apr 3, 2020 at 0:08
  • @trognanders Umm, I'm not sure. I'm not a lawyer. The question would be whether, if the seller then signs the offer, it is at that point a legally binding contract. Offers often have "escape clauses", like saying that it is contingent on an inspection, buyer being able to obtain financing, etc. Arguably those are superfluous if it is NOT a binding contract. If you could just say "forget it" for any reason, why would you need to write in reasons? But I'd check with a lawyer or a realtor before I made assumptions. I'll gladly yield here to someone who actually knows.
    – Jay
    Apr 3, 2020 at 17:17
  • @trognanders In the UK, anything leading up to the sale contract is non-binding. That's because property sales, unlike most other contracts, have specific rules attaching to them. Once the contract is signed, if one party fails to complete then the options are: (1) rescind the contract and claim damages and/or (in the buyer's case) forfeit the deposit, or (2) apply to court for specific performance (i.e. force the sale) which although an equitable remedy, will nearly always be granted because property is unique and damages don't suffice. I suspect Ireland isn't too dissimilar to the UK.
    – JBentley
    Apr 3, 2020 at 22:57

My wife and I run a real estate brokerage in Florida. The transaction process is different here but principles are similar. I think there's a good chance the deal will fall apart if you try to renegotiate the price at this stage.

Buyers and sellers in residential real estate transactions often make emotional decisions. Don't be surprised if the seller pulls out rather than coming back with a counter offer. They may be feeling nervous themselves and decide not to move at all, particularly if they were planning to move to a more expensive house. Either way you are likely to delay the transaction. Bank underwriting standards may change while you are negotiating the discount. They may decide you no longer qualify.

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    It's a win-win scenario for the OP. Either the seller lowers the price, or the seller does what you're saying and walks away, in which case OP is saved from making a disastrously bad financial investment.
    – JBentley
    Apr 3, 2020 at 23:04
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    If you believe you are about to make a "disastrously bad financial investment" you should pull out. Period.
    – Peter G
    Apr 4, 2020 at 17:31

Recession (and the related risks and uncertainties) goes both ways.

If the real estate marked drops significantly and doesn't recover quickly, you will have overpaid if you buy at the agreed price. It would indeed be reasonable to ask for a price reduction and cancel the deal if you don't get one.

If the government decides to counter the economic recession by emitting more money (thanks for the link, @Underminer), real estate prices will keep raising due to inflation. It would then be reasonable for the seller to raise the price now, and cancel the deal if you don't agree.

Unless the future is known right now with a reasonable degree of certainty, changing the price either way is groundless. Indeed, if the price of the property has already changed (as the property valuation from your bank shows), it's only fair to review the deal to the actual price.

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    The pandemic is unlikely to lead to a boom in the economy. Massive unemployment and business closures loom. A falling housing market is extremely likely. Apr 2, 2020 at 10:39
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    @OscarBravo What about the inflation, do you rule it out? Apr 2, 2020 at 11:07
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    Tying a recession and governments emitting more money to rising house prices is wrong. Real estates prices fell in every recession dating back to at least the great depression. Saying changing the price is groundless because the future is not known also isn't accurate. The future isn't known, but stock markets around the world are down ~20% YTD. Why?
    – WittyID
    Apr 2, 2020 at 19:53
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    Backing up Dmitry: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stagflation or recession-inflation can occur when the government creates policies that harm industry (lock-down) while growing the money supply too quickly (stimulus money). Not saying it's going to happen, but it's possible.
    – Underminer
    Apr 3, 2020 at 14:35
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    This answer is correct in that we can't predict whether the markets will suffer further losses, or whether they will recover and rise. But it misses an essential point: we do know that the markets have gone down between when OP made his offer, and now. OP can avoid that loss, even though he can't predict what his future loss/gain might be. If I offer you an item for £100 and in the meantime its value goes down to £80, you don't know if it will drop even more to £60, or recover to £100. But you do know that if you give me £100 you are overpaying by £20 today.
    – JBentley
    Apr 3, 2020 at 23:08

If you can still walk away from the deal, particularly without having paid any deposit, your leverage is a willingness to cancel the deal. In the US you usually only risk deposit money until you have a deed and mortgage. Are you sincerely concerned enough about the housing market changing that you will cancel the deal?

Supposing you are actually seriously considering walking away and would feel more comfortable doing so without a price change, it is reasonable to attempt negotiation before canceling. Both potential outcomes are favorable, either lower price or canceled deal. Searching for comps with decreased prices or having some market data would help!

Alternatively, if you are not willing to walk away, threatening to do so is a bluff. They might believe you, or cut the price just to make the deal happen, but they also might not. In this scenario you are not guaranteed a favorable outcome, they might rescind whatever deal they have already made with you and search for a new buyer... a pretty big gamble if you seriously want the property.

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    +1. The power to negotiate is the power to walk away.
    – Phil Frost
    Apr 4, 2020 at 0:31

Since you are buying a house, you will have been watching closely the housing market recently. Go back and look at some of the other properties you considered that are still unsold. Has their asking price gone up or down?

The housing market is entirely capitalist so have no shame in following the fundamental capitalist ethos of supply and demand. If demand drops, so must prices. Drop your price to the lowest the seller will accept.

This may seem harsh on the seller, but that is just his luck. If gold had been discovered in the hills behind the house, he would be putting up the price accordingly. So what if he might get a few thousand less than he hoped for; you have your own family and finances to worry about and that is your first priority.

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    If I’m the seller, and the buyer wants to reduce the price at the last second, I make a counter offer at a higher price. And they can take it or f*** off.
    – gnasher729
    Apr 2, 2020 at 12:22
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    @gnasher729 In that case you'd be letting your emotions get in the way of a business decision. If you don't have another buyer, you could be in trouble with this approach. Apr 2, 2020 at 12:28
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    Oscar Bravo: You are underestimating me. You are confusing “emotions” with “display of emotions”. I like playing with people. Chances are he’s coming back with the tail between his legs. And my finances are such that nothing can get me into trouble.
    – gnasher729
    Apr 2, 2020 at 12:32
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    @gnasher729 I wasn't meaning you personally - I meant the-guy-who-would-do-what-you-said-you-would-do, but which you meant it as a ruse? I didn't get that nuance. The point I'm making is that you have to be Spock when it comes to business. Or at least Tessio, out of the GodFather, "Tell, Michael it was only business..." Apr 2, 2020 at 14:01
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    If a house isn't selling, it would be unusual for the seller to raise the asking price - if no one wants it for $X, why would anyone want it for $X+Y? The price of a house that's been on the market awhile normally tends downward, so it doesn't seem like a good metric for where the real estate market as a whole is going. If someone does raise their asking price, it's likely because they priced too low in the first place, rather than a sudden improvement in economic outlook. Apr 2, 2020 at 14:49

Providing the deal isn't legally binding, there's nothing to be lost by asking, and plenty to be gained. It may well be that the seller will say no, but at this late stage, having gone through the hoops etc. already, he may well be available for some negotiation.If not, then the price should stand, and if you're still happy, continue with the deal.

That deal could collapse at any time prior to final signing - I pulled out of one (selling) deal on the day of signing, having realised the house I was buying was owned by a bankrupt. Not a nice move, but perfectly legal.

  • I'd be interested to know what country this happened in. In the UK the only way that could happen is if you attempted to do your own legal work and botched it, or your solicitor was totally incompetent. The fact that the seller is bankrupt would be revealed by searches conducted at a fairly early stage, and certainly way earlier than the day of signing.
    – JBentley
    Apr 3, 2020 at 23:17
  • @JBentley - it was UK, and about 45 yrs ago.I found out several days before I was to sell my house, that the seller of the house I was buying was a bankrupt. Thus, I pulled out of both deals.
    – Tim
    Apr 4, 2020 at 7:22

It would be foolish to purchase the house at the price agreed at the height of the market as you might lose £100,000 or more. It's difficult to see the seller agreeing to a £100,000 discount as the future is hard to see, so why not offer £50,000 less and go ahead?

Another thing is, are you likely still to have a job in a few months and be able to afford mortgage payments? With Brexit and now the virus, the best thing would be to invest in a shack in the woods, lots of cans of baked beans and a shotgun.

  • Not that good an idea. It's an ill wind...
    – Tim
    Apr 4, 2020 at 7:22

The thing you're not telling us is: how much do you need or want to do this transaction?

People who need to move are (always) in a far weaker position than those who aren't particularly bothered, who are cool, laid back, etc. There can be reasons for being laid back. Sometimes the reasons can be wrong.

The same argument applies to sellers: do you know whether this seller really needs to sell soon, or not? Selling property is one of the most stressful experiences known to humankind, unless you happen to be someone who is sitting on a vast portfolio of properties, or is otherwise minted big time.

To summarise: you're really asking "how long is a piece of string". I don't know.

Think about this: Coronavirus could well be "over" in 8 weeks. By this, I mean that everyone everywhere will be wearing masks wherever they go, older and vulnerable people the world over will be subject to extreme protective and isolating measures until such time as a vaccine is developed. What every country in the Developed world is waiting for is for the peak to flatten, so that its health service doesn't become overwhelmed with thousands dying horrible deaths in hospital corridors.

Nothing about the present situation implies necessarily that house prices, in Ireland or anywhere else, will drop. Even a bit. It would be foolish in the extreme to assume that. Particularly if you yourself want or need to move.


You are talking about a recession due to extraordinary circumstances where the financial institutions feel it appropriate to counter the recession by printing more money, while the production at a stillstand will not provide an equivalent in available goods.

That means the money will go down in value compared to real estate.

If you threaten to drop out of the deal right now, chances are that exactly that will happen and you'll be left with money that will lose value way faster than the usual inflation rate, and most certainly faster than the real estate you are talking about.

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    This is just wrong. You're essentially saying that in a recession, it is better to hold assets than it is to hold cash. In the last recession, real estate values went down by about a third in most large cities, while inflation was in the low single digits to negative. If you're predicting hyperinflation, then you're correct but that is definitely an oulier as far as economic predictions go. Fin institutions have been printing money and carrying out extraordinary QE for 10yrs now while managing to keep inflation in check.
    – WittyID
    Apr 2, 2020 at 19:03

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