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Jun 4, 2019 at 1:11 comment added RonJohn @JohnFx legal documents let the lender adjust the terms of the loan in a very lenient manner when the borrower's wife gets hit by a bus while both children have cancer (so as to retain the relationship), while sticking it to relatives who turn out to be good-for-nothing dead beats who you don't want a relationship with anyway.
Jun 4, 2019 at 1:05 comment added JohnFx @RonJohn Again, I'm not worried about your legal risk. I'm saying that mixing money with family is a bad recipe. Let's say you have to use that contract to sue them for repayment or repo their property. Sure you may get it back, but at the cost of a relationship.
Jun 1, 2019 at 13:17 comment added RonJohn @JohnFx but the contract makes things crystal clear, with no ambiguities, no "I thought you said...", etc.
Jun 1, 2019 at 13:12 comment added JohnFx @RonJohn I would disagree for the same reason. All that does is give you a vehicle to sue them. It is the relationship I'd be concerned with, not the repayment.
May 31, 2019 at 13:16 comment added RonJohn @JohnFx make it a signed contract, specifying term, rate, pre-payment, penalty for non-payment, late payment, etc. I've borrowed money twice from my family like that, and it's worked like a charm.
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Dec 24, 2016 at 3:53 comment added JohnFx On a non-financial note. I wouldn't borrow or lend money from/to relatives. This is how decades long fights start in families.
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Dec 23, 2016 at 19:25 comment added Joe Note my answer; the "just over six figures" is important and you might want to be specific (or within $5000 or so specific). There's an important line at $100,000 exactly.
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