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This type of situationssituation is all about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


Unless this was a tax refund loan (which is often offered routinely to people who e-"file" with certain companies), your statements do have a credibility issue. One gets a loan for a reason, eagerly awaits the check, and applies the money to the reason. It's rather improbable to "forget". That, plus cashing it once with your bank and the second time through a check cashing place, raises some suspicion about your motives. All the more reason to take the initiative and get recorded with the earliest possible timestamp, trying to honestly rectify the situation.


Only as a standard disclaimer, I mention those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. We have many Q&A on that, read up if it applies to you.

This type of situations is all about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


Unless this was a tax refund loan (which is often offered routinely to people who e-"file" with certain companies), your statements do have a credibility issue. One gets a loan for a reason, eagerly awaits the check, and applies the money to the reason. It's rather improbable to "forget". That, plus cashing it once with your bank and the second time through a check cashing place, raises some suspicion about your motives. All the more reason to take the initiative and get recorded with the earliest possible timestamp, trying to honestly rectify the situation.


Only as a standard disclaimer, I mention those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. We have many Q&A on that, read up if it applies to you.

This type of situation is all about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


Unless this was a tax refund loan (which is often offered routinely to people who e-"file" with certain companies), your statements do have a credibility issue. One gets a loan for a reason, eagerly awaits the check, and applies the money to the reason. It's rather improbable to "forget". That, plus cashing it once with your bank and the second time through a check cashing place, raises some suspicion about your motives. All the more reason to take the initiative and get recorded with the earliest possible timestamp, trying to honestly rectify the situation.


Only as a standard disclaimer, I mention those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. We have many Q&A on that, read up if it applies to you.

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This type of situations is all about initiativeall about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


My problem with your statement is "gettingUnless this was a tax refund loan from a company"(which is not something one doesoften offered routinely. If you had such a pressing life situation that you needed to do so, I would think you'd have waitedpeople who e-"file" with bated breath for that check, deposited it the moment it comes incertain companies), andyour statements do have a credibility issue. One gets a loan remembered doing sofor a reason because it solved the situation. So finding the check barely 2 months later, it seems super weird to remember whateagerly awaits the check was, but assumeand applies the most likely scenario is "I must've forgottenmoney to cash it"the reason. That strains belief It's rather improbable to "forget".

Then That, since you used mobile/e-deposit into aplus cashing it once with your bank accountand the firstsecond time, why didn't you do that the second time? Why change horses and go to through a check-cashing cashing place (and pay, raises some suspicion about your motives. All the exorbitant fees there)? Wellmore reason to get cashtake the initiative of course! Protest as you may, Occam's Razor points to a 19-year-old's naïve hope of ripping off the check cashing shop, which you now got cold feet on, possibly because you did more research on how these things actually work.

I am not accusing you of that; I am saying that's what people will assume, and it's on youget recorded to show, by fact and actwith the earliest possible timestamp, that this is not truetrying to honestly rectify the situation.


The other possibility is that you do get such loans routinely enough to really get confused. This would indicate a different problem, along with dealing with expensive check-cashing shops in the first place. That isOnly as a problem worth asking aboutstandard disclaimer, because most people do not routinely get loans and never set foot in check cashing shops.

Lastly it might be worth mentioningI mention those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. At best they are laundering money; at worst they sent you a bad checkWe have many Q&A on that will ultimately bounce after a very long delay, read up if it applies to you.

This type of situations is all about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


My problem with your statement is "getting a loan from a company" is not something one does routinely. If you had such a pressing life situation that you needed to do so, I would think you'd have waited with bated breath for that check, deposited it the moment it comes in, and remembered doing so because it solved the situation. So finding the check barely 2 months later, it seems super weird to remember what the check was, but assume the most likely scenario is "I must've forgotten to cash it". That strains belief.

Then, since you used mobile/e-deposit into a bank account the first time, why didn't you do that the second time? Why change horses and go to a check-cashing place (and pay the exorbitant fees there)? Well to get cash of course! Protest as you may, Occam's Razor points to a 19-year-old's naïve hope of ripping off the check cashing shop, which you now got cold feet on, possibly because you did more research on how these things actually work.

I am not accusing you of that; I am saying that's what people will assume, and it's on you to show, by fact and act, that this is not true.


The other possibility is that you do get such loans routinely enough to really get confused. This would indicate a different problem, along with dealing with expensive check-cashing shops in the first place. That is a problem worth asking about, because most people do not routinely get loans and never set foot in check cashing shops.

Lastly it might be worth mentioning those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. At best they are laundering money; at worst they sent you a bad check that will ultimately bounce after a very long delay.

This type of situations is all about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


Unless this was a tax refund loan (which is often offered routinely to people who e-"file" with certain companies), your statements do have a credibility issue. One gets a loan for a reason, eagerly awaits the check, and applies the money to the reason. It's rather improbable to "forget". That, plus cashing it once with your bank and the second time through a check cashing place, raises some suspicion about your motives. All the more reason to take the initiative and get recorded with the earliest possible timestamp, trying to honestly rectify the situation.


Only as a standard disclaimer, I mention those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. We have many Q&A on that, read up if it applies to you.

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This type of situations is all about initiative. If you contact them first, it looks like an honest error you caught. If they discover it and contact you first, then it looks like you tried to get away with something and they caught you.

Of course, in the latter case, you will protest that it was an honest mistake, but that just sounds like you're saying that because you don't have any other options now that you got caught. So you will have zero credibility.

So Right Now do whatever it takes to get caught on tape trying to tell them ASAP. If they are closed and don't have voice mail, I would write a note, put it in an envelope, and slide it under their door, making sure to get caught on CCTV doing so. That will put a timestamp on your efforts.


My problem with your statement is "getting a loan from a company" is not something one does routinely. If you had such a pressing life situation that you needed to do so, I would think you'd have waited with bated breath for that check, deposited it the moment it comes in, and remembered doing so because it solved the situation. So finding the check barely 2 months later, it seems super weird to remember what the check was, but assume the most likely scenario is "I must've forgotten to cash it". That strains belief.

Then, since you used mobile/e-deposit into a bank account the first time, why didn't you do that the second time? Why change horses and go to a check-cashing place (and pay the exorbitant fees there)? Well to get cash of course! Protest as you may, Occam's Razor points to a 19-year-old's naïve hope of ripping off the check cashing shop, which you now got cold feet on, possibly because you did more research on how these things actually work.

I am not accusing you of that; I am saying that's what people will assume, and it's on you to show, by fact and act, that this is not true.


The other possibility is that you do get such loans routinely enough to really get confused. This would indicate a different problem, along with dealing with expensive check-cashing shops in the first place. That is a problem worth asking about, because most people do not routinely get loans and never set foot in check cashing shops.

Lastly it might be worth mentioning those online scams where "employers" "pay" you to cash checks into your personal bank accounts and send money on to them. At best they are laundering money; at worst they sent you a bad check that will ultimately bounce after a very long delay.